“…Oh, what a relief it is!” To finally know who will be there for you in your life, who will support you, love you, care for you, be honest with you and…WHO WON’T. It is a huge burden off your shoulders to know the reality of things. It might be painful, a bit ugly, maybe REALLY painful…but it is a HUGE relief!!! It is so hard to work on trust issues. It is incredibly easy to accept some people will stab you in the back, it is hard to believe you can truly trust someone. Then, when the ones you believe in betray your trust, you aren’t even “back at Square One,” you are aiming to get back to “Square One.” You are hurt, sad, pissed, humiliated, DEVASTATED….but at least you know the truth.
Now, you can make choices based on yourself. You know who will be there for you and you know who is a greased, slimy pig. And, you also can view “damaged goods” as what they are. Again, I am not saying this comes without pain and frustration…I am just saying you can now begin the movement forward.
Who wants to be surrounded by liars, hypocrites, and Narcissists???? People who are either “blissfully unaware” or masochists. So, be grateful for (as Oprah says) people showing you who they are, take them seriously when they show their true colors and then do what you have to do to take care of you!
“Plop, plop, fizz, fizz…”